However, as we've seen in the last few weeks, many things happen that cause us to forget and accept limiting beliefs. These beliefs lead us to feel we are no longer worthy of the very birthrights we were given. That’s why we first learned about our inner child and how to set boundaries—because healing the past is the only way to get unstuck from this fog.

This week, we will be shattering limiting beliefs and opening your eyes to the truth. This topic may feel like a threat to your current "reality," and that’s okay. Remember to take a breath when you feel that trigger and just stick with me to the end. I promise you this is all worth your time.

The Illusion of Earning: Why We Forget Our Birthright

The society we live in definitely plays a part in what we believe we are and are not worthy of. With sayings like, “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” “You have to struggle to see your dreams come to fruition,” and “Life is hard,” it's not difficult to take on these collective beliefs. Our brains have a confirmation bias—we actively look for things that confirm what we already believe—and the media is great at perpetuating these ideas to our faces. We are constantly conditioned, consciously and subconsciously, to believe life is the way it is.

So many of us carry worthiness wounds that tell us we are not worthy of the lives we desire. They tell us we are not worthy of an easy, successful (whatever that means to you), and fulfilling life that makes us proud to be in our own skin. We bleed these beliefs everywhere we go—on the ground, on other people, on ourselves, and on our youth. This feeling of unworthiness perpetuates the delusion of inadequacy, which leads to the stress, anxiety, and exhaustion of feeling like we’ll never be enough. It all stems from living disconnected from our inherent worth.

But here is the truth: you are worthy of everything you desire. You aren't too old, too young, too far gone, or literally any other excuse you can come up with. We are here and now, and the past and future don’t matter. Let's look at what we are worthy of, starting with the foundation itself: your worthiness of being worthy.

Your Foundational Birthright: Worthiness

Repeat after me: My worthiness is not dependent on others’ opinions, thoughts, or actions. It's just not.

You are worthy because you're alive. No achievement, condition, action, behavior, or inaction can ever change that. While it may be difficult to believe, you are worthy of it all. You are worthy of living your best life, worthy of receiving and giving, worthy of each breath you take and each beat of your heart. You are a powerful energetic being who came here to learn and grow by experiencing everything that is meant for you. How can you fully experience life if you believe you are not worthy?

When we are able to embrace the fact that we are worthy of all things, life begins to look different. It evolves into something truly wonderful. Our self-talk changes and becomes more compassionate. We become our own best friends rather than questioning everything we experience.

This shift opens us up to more blessings—opportunities, people, experiences, and gifts—that are meant for us, and only us. No one can take them from us. When we fully realize that we are the only ones worthy of receiving these blessings in the way they are intended, we can receive them completely. It is critically important to fully and completely receive, big and small, because it is in that act that we truly realize just how worthy we are.

Living Your Birthright: Love, Kindness & Peace

Love, kindness, and peace are all deeply intertwined aspects of your birthright, and you deserve them all.

Love, in its truest form, should be effortless—not forced, not bargained for, and not earned. When we are living our birthright, the exchange and flow of love is easy and fulfilling. But to receive that powerful flow from others, we must first begin with ourselves. We must offer ourselves unconditional love, compassion, and kindness. When you “fail,” show up with love. When you have a hard day, show up with compassion. When you find yourself getting off track, follow up with kindness. When you can give yourself unconditional love, you no longer feel the need to desperately search for it from other people, because you have it within yourself. And what you give to yourself, no one can ever take from you.

A Quick Note on Kindness vs. Niceness

It is important to understand the difference between kindness and niceness. While they may seem similar, niceness is often an act of people-pleasing. It's a performance driven by a fear of rejection or the desire for approval. It's polite, it's agreeable, but it's not always authentic.

Kindness, however, comes from a place of genuine compassion and love—for yourself and for others. True kindness can be inconvenient and sometimes difficult. It is the act of speaking your truth, upholding your boundaries, and honoring your own needs, all while treating others with respect. When you choose kindness, you are honoring your own worthiness first, which allows you to give compassion to others from a full and honest place.

When you have peace within, it is a similar, but even more foundational, state of being. Peace isn't an act of devotion, but rather the internal safety, calm, and tranquility you have even amidst external events. It is the safe haven in the storm. Peace doesn't mean you won't have difficulties, but that you will have a safe place to work through them—a place that is within and not dependent on others for validation. When there is peace in your life, nothing that comes your way can decimate that inner knowing. Your past wounds no longer have the power to bleed openly and cause you immense pain, grief, or sadness. To be at peace is to fully understand who you truly are, and that's a worthy person capable of living their best life.

Manifesting Your Birthright: Joy, Ease & Abundance

Joy is not a fleeting emotion like happiness, but rather a state of being—an inherent well of contentment. When you are truly joyful, you are secure in your boundaries, you know who you are deep down, and you aren't afraid to be authentically yourself. This sense of inner security is what feeds your joy. When you dishonor yourself, neglect your needs, or fall into old habits that don't serve you, you are diminishing your own joy and peace. Protect them both, as they will be your guides.

Life doesn't have to be a struggle that you dread. While life can be difficult at times, it can also be filled with ease. When you are aligned with your birthright, solutions, blessings, and peace come much more naturally. To truly embrace this, you must change your mindset. Set healthy boundaries with yourself and with the external world of other people's opinions, thoughts, and words that tell you life can't be easy. Don't give them your time; let them gently fade into nothingness as you build your own path. The saying, “work smarter, not harder,” comes to mind here. Look for ways to simplify your daily tasks to give yourself more time and prove to yourself that you can live a more fulfilling life. The key to this action is to never compare yourself to others—that only causes more grief than good.

Finally, we come to abundance. This isn't just about money or material things; it can be applied to all of these birthrights. In fact, an abundance of joy, peace, kindness, and ease is exactly what we should be aiming for. Of course, there is nothing wrong with having an abundance of money as well, as it will simply allow you to expand your energy and experience life at a different angle. When you have an abundance of these birthrights, life elevates immensely. You are able to give more, receive more, and be even more of your authentic self. It is your right to have a better quality of life. As I've said before and will keep saying, life can always be better because we are always evolving and growing.

Reclaiming Your Inheritance: Trusting Yourself

Before you can fully step into your birthright, you need to cultivate self-trust. Without it, you’ll be unable to accept new information or truly live from a place of worthiness. Self-trust is a profound form of self-love, and when you can trust your body, intuition, and needs, you expand your very being. Learning to build this trust is like strengthening a muscle, and it takes time and practice to develop.

The benefits of self-trust are immense. You'll stop second-guessing yourself, you'll no longer search for answers outside of yourself, and you'll learn to honor your gut feeling. As you consistently look within for guidance, you will build confidence, deepen your relationship with yourself, and develop a newfound sense of ease in your life. It becomes easier to look at your emotions with neutrality and to recognize when you need to rest instead of pushing through. It simply becomes easier to be you.

The trust you cultivate enhances all of your birthrights, making it easier to recognize when you are acting out of alignment and falling into old patterns. For me, developing a deep sense of self-trust has allowed me to truly live in the moment and let go of my obsession with the past or future. I stress less, breathe more, and focus on my body in the current situation, trusting that I am exactly where I am meant to be. This realization—that there is no "other" place I should be—is truly profound. This allows you to stop trying to control every external circumstance and simply be here now.

Conclusion: Returning Home to Yourself

We are here to learn, grow, and become more aligned versions of ourselves. We are meant to experience love, joy, peace, ease, kindness, and abundance—in fact, we are worthy of them. They are our birthrights, set in place by the Universe to aid us on our journey of life. You are inherently worthy of all blessings meant for you, and no one can ever take them away.

When we live in our divine birthrights, our lives, relationships, and experiences are enhanced. This allows us to live fully present and focused on our day-to-day activities rather than obsessing over the past or future. The adventure of self-discovery is an ongoing endeavor, but it is the path to ultimate self-love and the full acknowledgment of who you are at your core. It's beautiful, challenging at times, but always worth the work you put in, because it’s for you and no one can take that away from you.

With that, our adventure for today comes to an end.

My goal is simply to be a vessel, sharing the lessons and insights from my own path in the hopes that they may serve as a guide on your own. If this message found you at just the right time and resonated with you, I consider our connection a profound success. Whether our paths cross just this once or intertwine beautifully, know that I am here as a comrade and a friend on this journey.

I truly hope you feel seen, supported, and hopeful as you continue on your way. You are welcome to share your thoughts in the comments below or reach out directly to me. If you feel called to support this work and its mission, you can find the donation page linked in the site's footer. I look forward to connecting with you on this magnificent adventure.

With Love and Light,

Jamelah Luckett